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Author: IamEffed Subject: Wow...Separation sucks!

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Registered: 10-28-2013

posted on 10-28-2013 at 09:10 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
Wow...Separation sucks!


This is my first forum that i've decided to join after the separation started. Here's my story...i'm sure it's like everyone else's. We have been married since Jan 24,2009. I fell head over heels for her. Well, I'm going to skip a lot of details, but we have had 5 miscarriages that we never dealt with on an emotional level.

I was in the US Navy and after one of our miscarriages, she told me that she can't continue on with me gone and that if I stayed in the navy, she would leave me. Out of fear and what I thought was love, i left my awesome career. Naturally, over time i was depressed and did not handle my shit like a man.

This August she started making plans to go visit and old friend under the guise of visiting one of her other female friends.
I found out on Sep 18 after being apart since sep 5th and when she got home on sept 13. I've had sex with my wive twice since the separation started (very recently) and I found out after the last time that she is in love with him.

What a bitch.

I went this friday to return a rifle to her parents as it was a family heirloom and she had told me that's what her mom would want. I fucked up and told her parents that i could not be with someone that is in love with someone else. They didn't know, all they knew was that my wife had an affair.

I think I'm going to file this friday because i just can't take anymore.

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