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Gary7748
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posted on 01-15-2011 at 12:41 |
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How am I going to survive this?
My wife and I have been married 24 years. We've both made mistakes, but admittedly, most were mine. She now finds herself in love with another man and wants a divorce. Our finances are a mess due to a huge debt, so neither of us can leave our home for quite some time. She is off again tonight to be with him. This is tearing me apart and I don't know how to handle it. Any suggestions?
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GarysSisInLaw
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posted on 01-18-2011 at 15:54 |
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Reply to Gary
Stop blaming yourself Gary! Yes, you made some mistakes, but this is not your fault. Even if you were the perfect husband, she'd likely still be 'in love' with someone else. When she realizes he is not her knight in shining armor, she'll either come back to you, or move on to the next guy. I know it's hard, but you have to focus on what's best for you and the kids. Get on with your life as best you can. Keep busy: build your business, take care of yourself, spend quality time with the boys and your friends, pursue a hobby or take a class. You will miss her, but don't give yourself too much time to miss her. You will get through this and you will be happy again. ** Your wife's sister
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