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Author: htownmike Subject: been thinking lately
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posted on 02-05-2008 at 20:44 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
been thinking lately

I hope someday I can meet a girl that is a virgin also just like me. It just seems it's going to be harder and harder as the days go by to find a girl that is still a virgin that is close to my age. Anyone else feels that they eventually will find that guy or girl who still is a virgin? Or does it matter if they are a virgin still?
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posted on 02-09-2008 at 22:56 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
?

I don't think finding a virgin is important. Yes, it may be critical to your choices and connections with your significant other, but it seems more important that you fall in love before you have the sex talk.

For example, my bro and his girlfriend are both virgins. But they aren't planning to save themselves for marriage because they love each other so much. They've dated a whole year without a single argument. Parents on both sides can see it may be permanent. But they weren't attracted to each other by their virgin status, they just clicked and plan on marrying each other. Look for love like that! Who cares about virginity!?! I care about mine because I'm not ready. But you obviously are. So look for love in the right places and don't put so much emphasis on sex in the beginning.

The problem, is that most adults look at sex as part of being in a relationship, instead of being something you should truly feel.

You're probably looking for someone you can date for a a month or two, and then have sex. You want the connection and emotional requirements of sex, but you don't seem to want a long term relationship that entails. If you found the perfect and you never have sex would it matter that she is a virgin? Think about it.

Stop wasting your time looking for sex and a sex free partner to have it with while playing the victim of circumstance. Just find someone to spend whatever is left of your life with.
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posted on 02-11-2008 at 11:02 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
hi

Sex is actually is not the first thing I think about when I'm with someone. I just know it will come up when I'll get in into a relationship. Right now my main concern is to find someone first since I'm not with anyone right now.
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posted on 02-11-2008 at 14:02 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
Been thinking

Mike? How old are you? Where do u live? Are you a church person? how far with a girl have you gone? How inexperienced would a girl of your dreams have to be? you can read all of my previous posts and fine a bit about me
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posted on 02-11-2008 at 14:04 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
Been Thinking

Mike I see Texas!!! How about Arkansas?
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posted on 02-11-2008 at 20:52 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
hi, how are you?

'Mike? How old are you? Where do u live? Are you a church person? how far with a girl have you gone? How inexperienced would a girl of your dreams have to be? you can read all of my previous posts and fine a bit about me'

I'm 29. I live in Houston. Don't go to church maybe I should though because maybe I'll find a nice girl there. Haven't done anything sexual at all. I would prefer that she's a virgin but if she isn't then at least I hope she doesn't reject me because of that.
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posted on 02-12-2008 at 17:42 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
been Thinking

I have read all of your posts and have seen your photo. I am aware there is an age issue which may be a problem with you. It is not for me. Please read all of my posts and if you are still interested please post your E-mail address. we may have to work on the church thing and get you to going.
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posted on 02-12-2008 at 19:43 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
your age?

How old are you? Just curious.
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posted on 02-13-2008 at 04:40 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
Been Thinking

I am 20 now. I have been posting for a couple of years. I am disappointed that you did not read all of my posts. I have seen your photo youposted some time ago. Any questions I will try to answer.
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posted on 02-13-2008 at 09:19 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
sorry

Sorry about that. I'll give you my email address if you still want it.
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posted on 02-13-2008 at 14:37 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
Been thinking

Please doI will write to you. I already have butterflies in my stomach
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posted on 02-13-2008 at 15:28 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
my email

You should be able to get my email address by clicking on the email button on the bottom but if you can't then I'll give it to you when I get home.
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posted on 02-14-2008 at 03:52 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
Thinking lately

Please do
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posted on 02-14-2008 at 04:56 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
did you try it?

Did you try clicking the email button on the bottom? It should work and you should be able to email like that. Let me know if it works.
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posted on 02-15-2008 at 16:21 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
MAKE THE FIRST MOVE, MIKE!

'Did you try clicking the email button on the bottom? It should work and you should be able to email like that. Let me know if it works.'

DAMMIT MIKE!

WHY don't you email her?

I've been living in the Houston area for decades, posting to this forum for
more than a few years, and I'm GREEN with envy that moonlite is getting
"butterflies" over you - and has been ignoring me for all these years.

The opportunity is before you. Don't piss it away! MOVE on it!

If it were me, I'd have been sending her really massive email messages by now.

... but it isn't me.

... it's never me.

Humph.

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posted on 02-15-2008 at 21:26 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
hey man wassup

I did email her. You remind me of myself man. We need to go and hang out and something since you live close to me and have fun.
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posted on 02-16-2008 at 15:28 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
Thinking Lately

Moonlite is
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posted on 08-20-2009 at 16:42 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
ALL OF YOU

Are freaking ridiculous.
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posted on 11-10-2009 at 09:08 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
Hey!

So what happened with that moonlite???

Did anything come of it?

:)
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posted on 11-10-2009 at 19:01 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
not sure

Not sure what happened to her. All of a sudden she stopped emailing me. I hope she's ok.
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